I must say that I have found many a spiritualist in the single category than in the secular religious category. Many times it is because once one partner grows to a spiritual plateau it's expected to some degree that the other will at some point or want to. Bottom line, it has to be realized that the person you married or is with may have served his or her purpose in all your areas of life and it's time to move on. However, I am a strong believer in giving it all you have "mutually" until you've reached your threshold. These days I'd be lying to you to say that there are many "conventional" romances left and if they are left at some point the unconventional will either be knocking at the door at some point. As to if the door will open is a matter of those individuals involved. (A.K.A. "Temptation")
So what is a spiritually enlightened person to do when you have reached a certain point in your life and you want to find that special someone with not only the same interest but the same spiritual values as you do? Number one you've heard many clichés telling you that love finds "you" when you least expect it. But really lets be realist hereÉ. The likelihood of you finding someone who will accept your daily rituals to an ancient god, or your Reiki sessions, not to mention your chanting is not very high. Personally, I have never had a problem being "me" but have refrained from personal relationships until the universe gives me the green light and presents a worthy, dedicated and compatible individual. However, for those of you who feel that you're ready to share and grow here some proven guidelines for those who walk the spiritual path:
- For
spells done in attracting that special someone, before
you work on someone else to cast a spell on use your energies
to cast the spell on yourself first! Spells that release
your negative energy, and make you stronger as an individual.
Those attracted to you will be attracted to you as you
are, and who you are should be brought out in your spell
work. Once you have met this person after this spell,
then there are many other spells to work from in the matter
of love. Contrary to many love spells, many should work
on the individual wanting the relationship rather than
working on the intended individual.
- Don't
choose someone within your spiritual community only because
he or she is in your community. Make sure you also you
at least have gold to aspire towards outside of your spirituality.
If you only allow your significant other to see the part
they accept they cannot know to love you completely.
- Match
made on this earth? If you at one time was in love with
the person you are now with but due to your spiritual
growth feel otherwise then it is best to work with your
karmic fulfillment and be rid of your relationship. I
do not mean pay the person off with a large sum of money,although
for many this would be ideal. What I mean is to work out
your differences properly. Do not be deceitful, vengeful
or harmful etc. to the point that you must work this out
yet "again" in your next life.
- Know
what you want in a relationship before you go into one.
Have the courage to bring your desires, your goals and
issues in the beginning. Many times things worked out
in the beginning when they're brought to the front is
best than having your spouse find out later which only
amounts to confusion, anger and possible separation.
- Lastly,
meeting that special someone can be really like a needle
in a hey stack when you're dealing with over and beyond
the physical compatibility to combine spirituality. So
for starters here are some links below to hopefully get
you started if not with romance, friendship:
Tantric
Connections
http://www.tantricconnections.com
An Adult Oriented service. It is intended for Pagans,
Occultists, Mystics, and others, within the Mystical
Community who are also involved in Alternative Lifestyles.
EHarmony
http://www.eharomony.com
their unique matching system connects you with singles
who are compatible with you in 29 of the most important
areas of life.
Spiritual Singles http://www.spiritsingles.com/?source=overtureSpiritSIngles
Online spirirtual based match-maker service.
Astral Hearts http://www.astralhearts.com/
Metaphysical classified and personals
Dating
by horoscopes http://doublesign.com/
based on the best traditions of Chinese and Western
astrology.Last updated: December 31, 1969
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